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Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept

by Jayneen Sanders Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept is a beautifully illustrated children’s picture book that sensitively broaches the subject of keeping children safe from inappropriate touch. We teach water and road safety, but how do we teach Body Safety to young children in a way that is neither frightening nor confronting? This book is an invaluable tool for parents, caregivers, teachers and healthcare professionals to broach the subject of safe and unsafe touch in a non-threatening and age-appropriate way. The comprehensive notes to the reader and discussion questions...

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Surprise! Mum’s Birthday

by Deanne Carson This book introduces children to the differences between secrets and surprises and encourages them to help-seek when a secret makes them feel scared or worried. Suitable for children aged 4 – 6.

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Alanah

I come from a performance background, and much of my work has been with children: I’m an actor with a children’s theatre company, and an early childhood music and movement educator. I have also worked as an educator in the OSHC space, a character host for children’s parties, and a sensory play facilitator. My work with children has been beautifully rewarding, but I’ve observed a clear and consistent need for the kind of education that Body Safety Australia provides. I’ve seen how small a young person can be made to feel when we project harmful stereotypes onto the choices they make...

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So, you think you would always believe a rape victim

So, you think you would always believe a rape victim, but you would never believe a rapist?

In other words, there is a huge gap between how we think we will respond to women who’ve been raped and how we actually respond. Inside that gap lies a wealth of myths about rape and an underlying belief that women cannot be trusted.  Research released last week by Australia’s National Research Organisation for Women’s Safety (ANROWS), titled “’Chuck her on a lie detector’: Investigating Australians’ mistrust in women’s reports of sexual assault”, provides robust evidence of the depth of mistrust most of us don’t even know we have about women and rape.  From the report: “The call...

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Teaching Consent

by Jane Gilmore In the great tradition of small books on large topics, Teaching Consent tells the stories of children, teens, teachers, and educators in consent and respectful relationship classes. Jane Gilmore has been writing and speaking about domestic and sexual violence for over a decade. Now she is working with Deanne Carson, who spent that same decade teaching consent, body safety, and respectful relationships to children and young people from Early Childhood through to Year 12. This book is the result of their collaboration. Blending memoir, expertise, hilarious anecdotes, and...

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Body Safety Superstars Starter Pack

Developed by Body Safety Australia, this is your family’s body safety education starter kit. Set includes:One set ‘My Safe Adults’ finger puppetsIt’s My Body – Lory FreemanSurprise! Mum’s Birthday – Deanne CarsonOne set of Flight, Fight, Freeze cardsOne set Roll’n’Play Emotions game

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I Won’t Said Willow

Why won’t Willow give Mum’s visitors a kiss? Is she being naughty? It’s lucky she has an understanding adult to talk to, who helps her sort out good secrets and bad secrets – and helps teach Mum about listening when Willow stands up for her body boundaries. Suitable for ages 4 – 8.

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Don’t Touch My Hair

by Sharee Miller For ages 3 – 8 This humorous picture book speaks to a national conversation on strangers touching black hair (from Solange’s song “Don’t Touch My Hair”, to Phoebe Robinson’s You Can’t Touch My Hair), and sparks an important conversation on personal boundaries for children as Aria explains that her hair should not be touched without asking for permission first. Commercial, imaginative, and fun, Don’t Touch My Hair! can be used to teach young readers about personal boundaries and asking for permission–and that it’s...

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Jacob’s New Dress

by Ian Hoffman and Sarah Hoffman For ages 4 – 7 Jacob loves playing dress-up, when he can be anything he wants to be. Some kids at school say he can’t wear “girl” clothes, but Jacob wants to wear a dress to school. Can he convince his parents to let him wear what he wants? This heartwarming story speaks to the unique challenges faced by boys who don’t identify with traditional gender roles.

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It’s MY Body

by Lory Freeman Body Safety book that teaches young children between 2 and 8 years how to resist uncomfortable touch. The drawings are simple and expressive so that even the youngest reader can comprehend them. The text is simple and clear; positive, not scary.

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